How important are your engagement portraits in helping to make your wedding photographs successful? This is a very interesting question and one that all prospective brides should be asking themselves before they hire a wedding photographer.

The answers might surprise you…
If you’re newly engaged to be married, congratulations to you both! This is going to be the most amazing and emotional time of your lives! I know from personal experience what an exciting time this is – all the planning, romance and anticipation of your dream wedding day is ahead of you, and your wedding day is going to be fantastic.
One of the things you’re probably looking for right now is the right photographer for your Memphis wedding, but did you know that a properly conducted engagement portrait session could have a huge impact on the quality of your finished wedding photographs?
Now, I’m not talking about a basic snapshot for the newspaper announcement, but a detailed portrait session, taken on location, of the two of you enjoying life together as a couple.
But, I hear you ask, why would an engagement portrait session have any real effect on the wedding photographs? After all, the wedding day is quite some time in the future and is a completely separate event. Well, that’s partly true, but there are actually at least 7 reasons why the engagement portrait session is so important in making sure your wedding photographs turn out perfectly…
1. You and your photographer get to know each other:
The relationship between the photographer and their subject is an important and complex one, especially if the photographer is working from an artist’s perspective. In order for the photographer to create portraits of you that show your unique personalities and your connection to each other as a couple, he must first get to know you.
This is one of the reasons why the engagement portrait session is held on location, rather than in the clinical and detached environment of a traditional photography studio; it gives you and the photographer a wonderful opportunity to be your natural selves, allowing your true personality to shine through in all your images.
As you and your photographer naturally begin to connect with each other, this will show in the finished portraits. It also means that, on your wedding day, you and your photographer are already well acquainted with each other, which will lead to more personal and meaningful images from your wedding.
2. You become comfortable in front of the camera:
I will be the first one to admit that not everyone is a natural-born model! That’s one of the reasons I would rather be behind the camera, instead of in front of it. But, sometimes we do have to take on the role of model, and your wedding day is not the best occasion to try that for the first time! The stresses of your wedding are quite enough without having to cope with getting use to a camera being pointed at you all the time as well.
If you want your wedding photographs to be perfect, then it’s definitely worth spending some time to grow accustomed to your photographer and the actual process of being photographed. It really is a lot easier and less painful than you might imagine! Many people are naturally shy or self-conscious when someone points a camera at them, so I make a real effort to ensure that all my clients feel relaxed and happy while being photographed.
During your engagement portrait session, you will see how easy it really is to relax in front of the camera. I believe in allowing my subjects to just “be themselves”, rather than adopting awkward or unnatural poses, so the session is free of any unnecessary direction or weird poses. Many times, I use telephoto lenses to allow me to photograph you from a distance, so you don’t have that feeling of having a camera being right there in your face.
When the wedding day does arrive, you will know exactly what to expect, and it will help your day go so much more smoothly. You will feel more in tune with your photographer, which will show in your finished wedding portraits, allowing the true emotions of your day to shine through.
3. It’s fun, relaxed and romantic:
As a newly engaged couple, the engagement portrait session is probably the first time you will be photographed together professionally. Your choice of wedding photographer will depend on many factors, but the primary ones should be trust and personal compatibility.
As you and your photographer create your romantic engagement portraits, you will quickly find out if they are fun to work with, if they can make the two of you relaxed, and whether or not they can capture the romance in your relationship.
When it comes to the wedding day, it will be as though you have your best friend photographing your wedding for you.
Can you imagine what a difference that makes to the final photographs, compared to a situation where you hardly know the photographer at all, because it’s the first time you’ve really worked with them?
4. You get to see how the photographer creates photographs of YOU:
This one is so important, yet many couples overlook it. When you meet with your chosen photographer, or look at their web site, or view their samples, you’re looking at photographs and portraits of other people – not you. At this stage, you have no idea what your portraits will look like, how the photographer will capture your personality etc.
An engagement portrait session is the perfect chance for you to see just that – photographs of YOU, created by the person you choose to tell your wedding story.
When you work with a photographer who can produce images inspire you and that portray your deep connection with each other and the romance in your relationship, you know that the photographs on your wedding day are going to be better than you even dreamed possible.
5. Engagement portraits allow for creative expression:
Wedding photography and engagement portraits are two different types of photography, yet they are intimately connected through you, the subjects. Wedding photography is all about capturing the emotions, story and family relationships of your wedding day, whereas engagement portraits are more personal and intimate – showing the depth of your relationship and your individual personalities.
The two types of photography are quite different and separating them into two distinct “sessions”, if you like, allows the proper creativity and artistic intent of the photographer to really shine.

Most wedding photography, with the possible exception of the candid photographs, tends to lean towards a traditional style in order to satisfy the needs of the many people present, including the immediate family of the bride and groom.
However, an engagement portrait session is mainly for the two of you, and it can be as creative or as traditional as you wish. Because the session usually takes several hours (although it always seems a lot less than that at the time), we’re able to create a wider range of images, from playful to whimsical, to traditional or more artistic portraits.
On the wedding day, we can take some of the ideas from the engagement portraits and incorporate them into some of the wedding portraits without having to spend valuable time to think up and develop the idea. In essence, the engagement session has become something of a practice session for the wedding itself.
6. A different kind of emotion:
Everyone cries at weddings (even me, as the photographer!) – they are such emotionally charged events.
Emotions and tears at the wedding are expected, and can make for some wonderful memories, but the portraits we create at the wedding are subtly different to those we produce from an engagement session.
Engagement portraits are also full of emotion, but of a different kind – there are usually less tears and the mood is more carefree and playful.
These are the kind of images we might not be able to capture during the wedding itself, simply because the atmosphere of the occasion is different.
The two types of photography – the wedding and engagement portraits – complement each other perfectly to enhance each other.
7. Everything is under control:
Your wedding day is more than likely going to be a date set in stone, and we can’t change it if the weather misbehaves. We can’t move the location to another place if the light isn’t just right, and we certainly can’t change the physical characteristics of the location.
But, for the engagement portrait session, we have almost total control over every aspect of the process. We ensure that we choose a perfect location or set of locations, that the weather is just the way we want it (no wind or rain), and we choose a time of day when the light is flattering and not too bright.
Just like in the theater, the stage is set, the lights are positioned and the backdrop sets the scene. All it needs is for the two of you, the cast of this wonderful play, to grace the stage with your presence and have a wonderful time with each other.
Now, if the conditions are not perfect on your wedding day, I will still create some wonderful photographs for you, but you will have the treasure of your prefect engagement portraits as well, to complement those from your wedding day.

Engagement Portraits Are Important
So, you see, your engagement portraits really can make your wedding photographs more successful. Engagement portraits are so important to me, in fact, that I include them as standard in all of my wedding collections.
The diamond is forever, as they say – I believe the memories of your engagement should be too…
By the way, if you already have a wedding photographer for your wedding, but no engagement portrait session as part of your collection, then I will be more than happy to assist you by providing a stand-alone engagement session for a nominal fee. I will even work with your photographer to make supply your engagement images to be included in your finished wedding book or album.
For more information on my wedding photography services, please visit the Wedding Photography web site or call me TODAY at (901) 606-9105 for a friendly chat about your engagement portraits or wedding photography.
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